"unwavering pain of leaving"

It has been a custom of people all over the world to believe that the hardest part is to be left by the one you love the most..
the bereavement, the pain, the sorrow and the feeling of loosing someone without having to do anything about them leaving..
but i realized...

the hardest part is leaving the people you love, its when you start outgrowing the fear of dying that you start growing into being afraid of leaving the people you love behind. The consuming fear that will devour you to your very soul is being nothing to be more than a mirage, a wind, a mere phantom that floats around them and not having to embrace or comfort and give them solace in their moments of suffering..
that is the hardest for each of us who love someone.